13 Best Gay & Lesbian Coming Out

List Updated July 2020

Bestselling Gay & Lesbian Coming Out in 2020


Am I Blue?: Coming Out from the Silence

Am I Blue?: Coming Out from the Silence
BESTSELLER NO. 1 in 2020

Coming Out: High School Boys Share Their Stories

Coming Out: High School Boys Share Their Stories
BESTSELLER NO. 2 in 2020

Coming Out of Shame: Transforming Gay and Lesbian Lives

Coming Out of Shame: Transforming Gay and Lesbian Lives
BESTSELLER NO. 3 in 2020
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Coming Out: An LA Lovers Book

Coming Out: An LA Lovers Book
BESTSELLER NO. 4 in 2020

Lesbian Epiphanies (Haworth Gay & Lesbian Studies)

Lesbian Epiphanies (Haworth Gay & Lesbian Studies)
BESTSELLER NO. 5 in 2020
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Coming Out: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered: The Complete Guide to Coming Out of The Closet, Finding Support, and Thriving in Your New Life (Am I ... i think i'm gay, self-acceptance Book 1)

Coming Out: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered: The Complete Guide to Coming Out of The Closet, Finding Support, and Thriving in Your New Life (Am I ... i think i'm gay, self-acceptance Book 1)
BESTSELLER NO. 6 in 2020

Coming Out, Coming Home: Helping Families Adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child

Coming Out, Coming Home: Helping Families Adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child
BESTSELLER NO. 7 in 2020
  • Columbia University Press

Outing Yourself: How to Come Out as Lesbian or Gay to Your Family, Friends, and Coworkers

Outing Yourself: How to Come Out as Lesbian or Gay to Your Family, Friends, and Coworkers
BESTSELLER NO. 8 in 2020

Mom and Dad, I’m gay: Coming Out of the Closet

Mom and Dad, I’m gay: Coming Out of the Closet
BESTSELLER NO. 9 in 2020

Coming Out Within: Stages of Spiritual Awakening for Lesbians and Gay Men

Coming Out Within: Stages of Spiritual Awakening for Lesbians and Gay Men
BESTSELLER NO. 10 in 2020

Coming Out to Play

Coming Out to Play
BESTSELLER NO. 11 in 2020

Coming Out: I Think I'm Gay ~ The Ultimate Guide to Self-Acceptance, Coming Out, Building a Support System, and Loving Your New Life ~ (How to Come Out of the Closet)

Coming Out: I Think I'm Gay ~ The Ultimate Guide to Self-Acceptance, Coming Out, Building a Support System, and Loving Your New Life ~ (How to Come Out of the Closet)
BESTSELLER NO. 12 in 2020

How To Be A Happy Lesbian: A Coming Out Guide

How To Be A Happy Lesbian: A Coming Out Guide
BESTSELLER NO. 13 in 2020

Will There Ever Be a Right Time?

A brief overview of my coming out story to my closest friends and family members and confronting the issue of whether there ever will be the right to time to "come-out."

"So Christian, how's college?" said my mom.

"Oh it's fine. I am just happy to be home and away from all the homework and whatnot. It's just good to be home," I replied.

"What about relationships? Do you have a girlfriend…or a boyfriend?" asked my mom.

She asked it. She actually asked it. I couldn't decide whether I was embarrassed or relieved.

"About that, I am gay. At least I think I am," as I covered my hands over my face releasing a deep sigh.

I have been confronting this issue of my sexual orientation for nearly half of my life and finally I was given the opportunity to utter those three words: I am gay.

But when is it the right time to "come out?"

To be completely honest, there is never really a right time to come out, instead I'd like to think that there are windows of opportunity.

When I came out to my family I wanted to be sure of myself and my sexuality.

So, here are the steps:

Know who you are at this point and where you stand with your sexuality.

It's always going to feel uncomfortable when you "come out" for the first time, but what feels even more uncomfortable is when you are surrounded by those who don't support you. Test the situation. Ask questions related to your sexuality.

After I came out, I immediately asked my parents if they were comfortable with my sexual orientation. I wanted to show that I truly cared about what they thought and I wanted to ensure them that they could ask any question and I would do my best to answer it.

Being gay is just a small portion of my identity. There is so much more that I have to offer, as goes for you. Know that your sexual orientation should not have absolute control over who you are.

You need to remember to put yourself first. In this situation it's all about you.

As I had mentioned earlier there's never really a "right" time to come out but instead there are windows of opportunity. It just so happened that my window of opportunity was in the car over Black Friday on our way to the fabric store.

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